A regular comment made by men, especially when at the 13th (14th or 15th) ‘watering’ hole, is that they do not understand women; when women hear this they shake their heads in despair and frustration, wondering what it is about them that is so unfathomable. At the outset it is necessary to stress that both genders discussed in this article are assumed to be of sound mind, possessing a relatively high level of EQ: we are not addressing the (majority) of the population that is neurotic, addicted to something-or-other, co-dependant, emotionally unstable, commitment phobic or simply foolish. If you have a sincere desire to understand the female species and wish to enrich your romantic relationships you should find this insight beneficial; but be warned: action is called for.

I love cats because I enjoy my home; and little by little, they become its visible soul. - Jean Cocteau

Chiron entered my life in October 2006, approximately 6 weeks old and a hissing, spitting, feral bundle of fur. I was still involved in the sporting industry at that stage and was working at the 94.7 Cycling Expo; my sister and her Yorkshire Terrier had stumbled on a feral mother and her litter of kittens in a drain at their complex during one of their walks. After 2 hours of pleading, coaxing and waving Woolworths chicken fillets around, they managed to tempt only one of the kittens into the open.

Even the most rudimentary understanding of astrological time is beneficial: all types of relationships can be enhanced, on a daily basis, by aligning oneself with natural time; and for the deep-seated relationship problems, the traditional astrologer is able, through a variety of methodologies, to assist.

This section contains articles on a variety of topics - from relationships and health to politics and sport - which provide enough scope to be of interest to a broad spectrum of people. These articles should instil a respectful attitude towards the craft as it is meant to be applied, as well as pique the curiosity.

Anyone contacting an astrologer for assistance should receive answers that are practical and which can be implemented in daily life: there is nothing vague or intuitive about the craft. Astrology is used to assess relationship dynamics, be they of an intimate nature, parent/child relationships or professional relationships.

The birth chart, in the hands of a qualified and skilled astrologer, yields the essence, the very core of the person: this information, coupled with the external context of the life, determines relationship compatibility with others: intimate, familial and business; an understanding of this relationship realm allows the person to derive maximum benefit and enjoyment from all existing relationships. The natal chart depicts how the individual is perceived by others, a factor often overlooked when engaging with others; in many cases it is this perception that needs to be addressed first in order to transform relationships. Astrology is the oldest psychological assessment tool known to man and a skilled astrologer is able to apply this ancient craft to the most complex of life’s realms: relationships.

The natal chart is the palette of colours provided at birth: identify and maximise this potential to paint the most beautiful picture with this gift of life. The natal chart is able to provide insight into self-defeating behaviour on all levels: all facets of the person and the life are contained in the chart together with the solutions to these sensitive points. Astrology is a superior navigation tool and the natal chart is the road map of the individual life within which free will is contained: natal charts can be directed into the future and these forecasts are weather reports; if heeded, and the free will is applied prudently, unnecessary suffering can be alleviated - man does not only have to learn by trial and error. 

Everything that is ‘born’ can have a birth chart: while we do not play God, if the event in question will occur anyway, election astrology provides the entity with the best possible chance of success by assessing the potential depicted by the movement of the planets, enabling right action to occur at the right time. The optimum time is found for the birth of future entities such as a marriage (providing a psychological tool for solutions to possible potential problem areas) or the launch of a new business (having a birth chart for a business facilitates prudent future planning and strategizing). The optimum time to undergo surgery, host an event, travel or immigrate can also be derived.

Horary means ‘on the hour’: the horary chart is the birth chart of the situation, providing specific answers to specific questions which cannot be obtained from the natal chart. Horary is also the ideal astrological tool for those who do not have their birth time. While horary is seen primarily as a tool for prediction, its greater value lies not in its ability to forecast the outcome of any situation, but in its ability to provide a clear and succinct analysis of that situation, empowering you to act accordingly. Any question may be asked provided it is specific: location of missing items/people, career choices, financial investments, relationships questions, medical questions, the outcome of sporting events, etc. Horary is practical, accurate and provides deep insight into murky situations.

It is possible, with the tool of hindsight, to assess this grey area of adoption and to heed pre birth indicators, keeping it simple, and applying astrological skill and common sense. Surrendering a baby for adoption is not a frivolous decision. It is normally one which is taken soon into the gestation period and after much pre meditated thought; with this in mind I believe that the propensity for the native to be adopted at birth has to be located somewhere in the charts.

I was chatting with a friend who is also an astrologer and we came to the conclusion, based on our experience in this field, that what all of us really want to know is when will we meet someone who will love us just the way we are, and when we do, will they stick around once they discover our faults? That same day I received an email written by someone who runs a dating agency, and they mentioned how so many people who attend these arranged singles evenings spend the entire night complaining about how poor the quality of people is they are meant to meet and fall in love with.

I was woken telephonically around midnight by a neighbour who was standing at the entrance to our complex together with security guards, policemen and another resident of our complex who we have been trying to have evicted for months. She had blood streaming down her face and I thought I had stepped onto a movie set. What I could piece together is that she and this male resident arrived home at the same time, had words and then he walked up to her vehicle and punched her in the face. It is likely that an excessive intake of alcohol was involved on one or both sides and the situation I was confronted with was surreal, although the ugliness of it invaded the dream-like quality. She was finally taken to the hospital in an ambulance and it transpires she has a broken nose and received at least four blows to the head from this man.